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One Side Of The Filipina

I have read innumerable accounts of how wonderful the Filipina is and I have to say they are true. For the most part. However there is another side to the Filipina I feel I should mention so you can weigh up the two and make your own decision. Pick any dictionary you wish and next to the word ‘jealous’ is a photo of a Filipina.

It is true that they are only so intensely jealous because they love you so intensely when you are their chosen one. While that is a wonderful thing it does mean that you should only pick a Filipina when you are truly done roaming. They are very much a one-man woman and they expect the same from their Bana (Visayan for husband) or Asawa (spouse in Filipino but wife in Visayan).

They are so intensely jealous that there is another issue you need to deal with. Privacy. There is neither an understanding of the concept or any similar word in any Filipino language or dialect and there are hundreds of those to choose from! They know about modesty, subterfuge, secrecy and so forth but privacy? No way.

They will read your diary. They will read your emails and cellphone text messages. They will pry into everything and consider it their right to do so. After all if you truly love them then you have nothing to hide, right?

That wouldn’t be too bad if they gave you a fair go and accepted you might have known other women prior to meeting them. But that isn’t the case. Any evidence of any other female in your life no matter how long ago or how platonic the relationship, if she isn’t a close relative then the only reason you still have that old photo is because you still love her. And more than your Filipina!

Forget logic, it has no place with any female and especially so with the Filipina variety. It is all about emotion. So give that some serious thought, then fall in love like the rest of us.

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