Date Asian Women

I have had several Thai girlfriends and of course I know several expats who also have Thai partners or girlfriends. The women can be incredibly beautiful although that is subjective. Suffice to say I have never dated an ugly one but I have had one who was no stunner, but then neither am I and she was a wonderful person in so many ways.

Thais are Asian so they are more secretive than their western sisters. They will rarely criticize their man in public and even in the home they will prefer to skirt around the problem and expect you to twig to what the issue really is.

They are also very pragmatic and for the most part Buddhist. THis means they see no problem with partnering someone who can improve their situation. Money, housing, travel, health and so on can all be motivating factors and more honest and powerful than any false facade or pretense they love you deeply.

There is love and there can be love and it can be ‘love at first sight’ but my experience begs to differ. I respect the Thai woman for being pragmatic and realistic if she prefers to be my girlfriend than the girl of a poorer man or one with less prospects.

That has been the way of the world forever, it is only in recent generations we in the west insist on marrying for love. And the result of that once our western women were able to earn their own livings was a jump in the divorce rate.

As Buddhists they believe in live and let live and not interfering in another person’s fate. This can give them a slight mercenary look and feel but it is not malicious, merely realistic and actually respectful. They are having their (this) life and you are having yours. If it is meant ot be and there is good reason for it then it will be.

Thai women are not inhibited as western women can be. They do not have the false modesty and deceit fostered on them by monotheistic belief systems. This can make for great sex but it also means they are very independent. That might sound a contradiction of sorts if they are willing to marry for money and security but they are just as likely to move on if the life envisaged doesn’t occur.

I respect the Thai culture and the people. I accept they don’t need us westernes and I think that is a good thing. They are one of the few people in Asia or Africa who were never colonized by a European power and it shows.

Marrying a Thai will get you all the mysteries of the Orient but it will also have you realising that marriage is truly a two way street, love is wonderful but too often merely lust in a more PC guise and she is not your servant.

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